June , 18, 2015
 
Published from Palai
Issue : 16
Volume : 48
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

at\m`mhw amdpt¼mÄ
AUz. NmÀfn t]mÄ
t{]m BÎohv at\m`mhw ]IzXbpsS kao]\amWv. {]XnkÔnIfn bpàn]qÀÆw \S¯p¶ {]XnIcWs¯bmWv t{]m BÎohv F¶p hntijn¸n¡p¶Xv. sS³j\nÃm¯, AkzØXIfnÃm¯ im´{]IrXn. {]tIm]n¸n¡s¸Spt¼mgpw kaNn¯X. Ipäs¸Sp¯nbmepw ImtXmÀ¡p¶ssien. Xocm\ã¯nepw a\Èm´n. ]cmPb¯nepw ip`m]vXn hnizmkw. hnizkvXX, \À½t_m[w, £a, kvt\lkao]\w F¶nh t{]m BÎohv hyànIfpsS khntijXbmWv.

\½psS at\m`mhhpw Nn´mKXnIfpamWv \s½ cq]s¸Sp¯p¶Xv. at\m`mh§sf H³]Xmbn XcwXncn¡mw. (1) A\pIqe at\m`mhw (positive attitude) (2) {]XnIqe at\m`mhw (negative attitude) (3) \njv]£ at\m`mhw (neutral attitude) (4) kµnKv[ at\m`mhw (ambivalent attitude) (5) {]Xn{]hÀ¯\ at\m`mhw (reactive attitude) (6) Bkq{XW at\m`mhw (planning attitude) (7) B{IaW at\m`mhw (aggressive attitude) (8) CcbpsS at\m`mhw (victim attitude) (9) ]IzXm at\m`mhw (pro active attitude) F¶nhbmWh. HcmfpsS hyànXzw \nÀ®bn¡pt¼mÄ B hyànbpsS at\m`mh§Ä hfsc {]kàamWv.
aäp hyànItfmtSm, hkvXpXtbmtSm, hkvXphnt\mtSm \½psS a\Ên cq]s¸Sp¶ `mhamWp at\m`mhw. \nehn HcmÄ¡pÅ Adnhnsâbpw t_m[y§fpsSbpw ]Ým¯e¯nemWv AbmfpsS at\m`mhw cq]wsImÅp¶Xv. AdnhpIfpw t_m[y§fpw amdp¶X\pkcn¨p at\m`mh§fnepw amä§fpWvSmIpw. \·bpÅh\mIpI, \·sN¿p¶h\mIpI, aäpÅhcn \· ImWp¶h\mIpI F¶XmWv bYmÀ° hnPb¯n\pw kt´mj¯n\pw DXIp¶ amÀ¤w. \ÃXp ImWm\pw \ÃXp tIÄ¡m\pw \ÃXp Nn´n¡m\pw \ÃXp {]hÀ¯n¡m\pw X¿mdmIpI. C¯csamcp at\m`mhhpw Nn´mKXnbpw hfÀ¯nsbSp¡Ww. \à at\m`mh§fneqsS, Nn´mKXnIfneqsS \à a\pjy\mIpI F¶XmWp {][m\w.
PohnXt¯mSv t]mknäohv at\m`mhw ]qeÀ¯Ww. \½psS `mhamWv hnPb]cmPb§Ä k½m\n¡p¶Xv. Cuizc\nepÅ AN©eamb hnizmkt¯msS kmlNcy§sf Bßss[cyt¯msS kao]n¨m FÃmw \·bv¡mbn `hn¡pw. t]mknäohv at\m`mhapÅhÀ ip`m]vXnhnizmkt¯msS Imcy§Ä sN¿pw. kzbw {]tNmZnX\mbn, {]k¶hZ\\mbn, GXp {]iv\s¯bpw A`napJoIcn¡m³ t]mknäohp at\m`mh¡mÀ¡p km[n¡pw. kaNn¯XtbmsS Imcy§Ä sN¿p¶Xn\m kt´mjhpw hnPbhpw DWvSmIpw. kz´w IgnhpIfn BßhnizmkanÃm¯hcmWp \ncmimhmZnIÄ (pessimist). ChÀ an¡t¸mgpw tZmssjIZr¡pIfmbncn¡pw. PohnXs¯ \ntj[mßIambn«mWv C¡q«À ho£n¡p¶Xv. ap³hn[nbpw Bßhnizmk¡pdhpw Akqbbpw A`yql§fpw ChcpsS IqS¸nd¸pIfmWv. kµnKv[ at\m`mhw, {]Xn{]hÀ¯\at\m`mhw, B{IaWat\m`mhw, CcbpsS at\m`mhw F¶nhbnseÃmw s\Käohvat\m`mh§fmWv \ngen¡p¶Xv.
]ckv]chncp²hpw XoÀ¨bnÃm¯Xpamb at\m`mh¡mscbmWv kµnKv[at\m`mh¡mÀ F¶p hnfn¡p¶Xv. kvt\lt¯msSm¸w shdp¸pw \ngen¡p¶ {]IrXw. dnbmÎohv at\m`mh¡mÀ {]XnIqekmlNcy§fn s]m«ns¯dn¡p¶hcpw \ntj[mßIamb \ne]mSp kzoIcn¡p¶hcpamWv. imcocnIþam\knIþsshImcnI `mh§Ä s\Käohmbncn¡pw. an{Xs¯ C¡q«À s]s«¶p i{Xp¡fm¡pw. Bßkwba\w ]peÀ¯m³ Ignbm¯hcmWnhÀ. {`m´p ]nSn¨hsct¸msebmIpw s]cpamdpI. B{IaWkz`mh¡mÀ imcocnID]{Zh¯n\p apXncpw. ""I®n\p I®v, ]Ãn\p ]Ãv'' F¶ kao]\amWv B{IaWat\m`mh¡mcptSXv. CcbpsS at\m`mh¡mc³ aäpÅhÀ X§sf th«bmSp¶p F¶p hnizkn¡p¶hcmWv. Bßhnizmkhpw Bßss[cyhpw kzbw aXn¸pw C¡q«À¡nÃ.
t{]m BÎohv at\m`mhw ]IzXbpsS kao]\amWv. {]XnkÔnIfn bpàn]qÀÆw \S¯p¶ {]XnIcWs¯bmWv t{]m BÎohv F¶p hntijn¸n¡p¶Xv. sS³j\nÃm¯, AkzØXIfnÃm¯ im´{]IrXn. {]tIm]n¸n¡s¸Spt¼mgpw kaNn¯X. Ipäs¸Sp¯nbmepw ImtXmÀ¡p¶ssien. Xocm\ã¯nepw a\Èm´n. ]cmPb¯nepw ip`m]vXn hnizmkw. hnizkvXX, \À½t_m[w, £a, kvt\lkao]\w F¶nh t{]m BÎohv hyànIfpsS khntijXbmWv. Fsâ PohnX¯n\p Rm\mWv D¯chmZn F¶ kao]\amWnhÀ kzoIcn¡p¶Xv. Ipäs¸Sp¯m¯, ]gnNmcm¯ kao]\w. kzbw Adnbm\pw \nb{´n¡m\pw sImSp¡m\pw ChÀ¡dnbmw. at\m`mh§sfbpw Nn´miànsbbpw t]mknäohv B¡n, ]IzXbmÀ¶ kao]\w kzoIcn¡pt¼mgmWp hnPbw DWvSmIp¶Xv. kwXr]vXnbpsS Ddh a\Ênse `mh§fn \n¶p P\n¡Ww. Xo{hamb ip`m]vXnhnizmkw (Hard optimism) hfÀ¯Ww. a\Êp {InbmßI Nn´IfpsS Ccn¸nSam¡Ww. Nn´bpw a\Êpw kÀ¤mßIamIpt¼mÄ IpdhpIÄ \ndhpÅXmIpw.

 
 

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